You cannot walk the second journey with first journey tools. You need a whole new tool kit.
Falling Upward: A Spirituality for the Two Halves of Life by Richard Rohr
Rohr’s statement regarding the first half of our lives and the second half has been proven correct in my experience. Most of the tools that I found necessary and useful in the first half of my life have not served me well in the second half. In fact, it never occurred to me that I would need different tools. The tools I refer to are both practical and spiritual tools. With regard to spiritual tools, my first journey spiritual tools were mostly ineffective.
One of the things I remember about my father was his propensity for always trying to do a job with whatever tools he had available rather than taking the time and expense to get the tool designed to do the job. For example, he would always repair the brakes on our cars. Removing and installing brake shoes necessitated brake spring pliers. Dad refused to procure any brake spring pliers, insisting that the job could be done with ordinary pliers. I must say that he always got the job done but at pretty high cost… busted knuckles, wasted time, frustration and anger, improper installation requiring re-installation; not to mention the lessons he was teaching his son in the process. I followed his example. Thankfully, I eventually decided to have the brakes on my vehicles repaired by a real mechanic.
In retrospect, my first journey spiritual tools were akin to the ordinary pliers my father used. It seems to me that if I had used the proper tools in the first journey, I would have been better prepared for the second half. At least I could have avoided all those busted knuckles, et al; and maybe have taught my children a different lesson.