I immediately recognized him. Sitting on the edge of the children’s group called to the front for their special time before the congregation.
Bight and happy, the children were eagerly anticipating an opportunity to express themselves. The congregation joyfully anticipates unexpected and precious wisdom of little children.
A visitor, I was unacquainted with Jason, but I know him. Somewhat larger than the other children, he was enthusiastic and anxious to be acknowledged. Almost before the children’s pastor could offer a welcome and invite their participation, Jason’s arm was raised high.
Cheerfully the children’s pastor thanked God for each of them and invited all to share what they were thankful for. Further energized by her request, Jason became more insistent that he had something to share. Waving his arm urgently, he raised himself higher to gain some advantage.
Numerous children were waving the arms and excitedly sharing their thanks. Although, the children’s pastor did not look Jason’s way, she was acutely aware of his persistence. Finally, after calling on several children, she turned to Jason, saying, “Just wait, Jason, I’ll get to you in a minute.”
Jason retreated, dismayed that he was put off but cautiously optimistic. As I watched, his face betrayed the truth that he was once again destined to he unheard.
As children’s time concluded, Jason dutifully returned to his family.
Ouch. How often do I dismiss other children (or adults) in a similar way? Thanks for the thought-provoking story.
That hit my heart! Jason walked back, effectively shamed.
I’m thinking of how, when we get older, we do the same thing. Sometimes we are simply so needy we can’t contain our need, and flail our arms (figuratively) and annoy people … and they look away. We leave shamed. How could the community do better?