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So Much To Think About

Fankle
a better F word
…unfankling the fankles, and deciding to live with the odd unfankleable knot. ‘Fankle’ is a wonderful Scottish word for an unholy mess of thread, string, rope so tangled and entangled it takes inordinate patience to restore it to a useable skein.

Attachments
In Maps of Meaning Peterson describes how neurosis is often the product of unhealthy, excessive, and rigid attachments. Because of these attachments we often fail to move into newness and opportunity. We fail to meet the challenges of life with flexibility. Primarily because some things must be “let go” or “sacrificed” in order to move forward. Fearing to face this loss and grief, and clinging to the safety and predictability of the past, we neurotically cling to psychic lifeboats that can no longer save us and have outgrown their usefulness. Symbolically, we remain “children,” playing it safe, and fail to move heroically into the risks of “adulthood.” We have to be willing to “sacrifice” to keep moving into an ever-changing future. 

Preaching
Scott Swain wrote something that defines preaching this way:
In preaching, we are heralds of the king, announcing that he has come and that he is coming again. In preaching, we are friends of the bridegroom, wooing the bride to embrace her beloved Lord. In preaching, we are ministers of the new covenant, presenting Jesus Christ, clothed in all the promises of the gospel, and summoning hearers to engage him in covenant union and communion.

What is a woman?
The prominence of the woman in the Scriptures parallels the Spirit’s. She is present and yet backgrounded. She is visible, yet obscure. However, in the unfolding she comes increasingly into view until she looms as large as day in Revelation, the bride as the final symbol of mankind. Redeemed humanity is a mankind who has become “womankind,” the exalted son’s sister and bride. The final corporate identity of mankind is feminine. So, the woman is obscure in the Scripture not because she is less, but because she is last. She is indicative of things to come, yet she is treasure worth finding as she represents what eye has not seen, what ear has not heard, neither has entered into the heart of man, the things that God has prepared for those that love him.
Aimee Byrd

Language
Now, it is clear that the decline of a language must ultimately have political and economic causes: it is not due simply to the bad influence of this or that individual writer. But an effect can become a cause, reinforcing the original cause and producing the same effect in an intensified form, and so on indefinitely. A man may take to drink because he feels himself to be a failure, and then fail all the more completely because he drinks. It is rather the same thing that is happening to the English language. It becomes ugly and inaccurate because our thoughts are foolish, but the slovenliness of our language makes it easier for us to have foolish thoughts.
George Orwell

Lived Theology
If you take a look at what Christian living is actually like for those in your community and circles, you will discover — usually not creeds and confessions — but “lived” theology. The lived theology of a suburban and urban life will not be identical. 
Scott McKnight

This is what I’ve come to understand about prayer.
Prayer is like breathing. Prayer is metaphysical respiration. Release and receiving. Escaping the trap of your subjectivity into an experience of gratitude and gift. Renunciation and grace.
If you refuse to pray, it’s like going through the day holding your breath. You become trapped within yourself, like a stagnant pond. To keep the waters clear you need inflow and outflow. 
But when you look at the world, everyone is holding their breath. 
All the world is suffocating.
Richard Beck

Paradoxical thinking
The truth in paradoxical language lies neither in the affirmation nor in the denial of either side, but precisely in the resolution of the tug-of-war between the two. The human mind usually works on the logical principle of contradiction, according to which something cannot be both true and false at the same time. Yet that is exactly what higher truths invariably undo (for example, God is both one and three; Jesus is both human and divine; bread and wine are both matter and Spirit). Unfortunately, since the Reformation and the Enlightenment, we Western, educated people have lost touch with paradoxical, mystical, or contemplative thinking. We’ve wasted five centuries taking sides—which is so evident in our culture today!
Richard Rohr

Doctrine
Doctrine gets a bad wrap. It gets portrayed as flat, fixed, and even fossilized truth. Nothing could be further from the truth. Doctrine is revelatory truthwhich has been crystallized, like a many faceted diamond, into the brilliance of a refracted clarity. Doctrine never replaces Scripture, but it collects and collates these sacred texts into dynamic exhibits of revealed truth. Think of doctrine as a theological art gallery. Doctrine presents Scripture as a series of theological works of art. 

Part of the problem with doctrine is how over the years it has become like the Cliff Notes on the Bible. It’s like trying to reduce a movie to a series of still images. The Bible is like an epic movie series. Doctrines are like select scenes from the movie put into still images. The images only have meaning if you have seen the movie, but if you have seen the movie, they hold enormous significance. 

Our doctrine, though, cannot be confused for for our experience. Doctrine helps us understand and interpret our experience, but too often, it has been a substitute. We ask people to accept a set of doctrines when we need to be helping them to encounter and experience Jesus Christ. Doctrine does not save people. Only Jesus does that. 

Then there is the peril of substituting our experience for our doctrine, or worse, defining our doctrine according to our experience. The deception of sin has shipwrecked many souls on the shoals of changing our doctrine to accommodate our broken human condition. 
There is a supreme irony in the interplay of these two scenarios. Because we have been willing to allow an approach to doctrine that settles for mere acceptance instead of pressing on toward personal experience, we have perpetrated an approach to personal experience (whatever it may be) that elevates it to its own doctrine. In other words, the Truth has been exchanged for “my truth” and “your truth.” 
the greatest enemy of ordinary daily goodness and joy is not imperfection, but the demand for some supposed perfection or order.
Richard Rohr

Van Gogh’s Self-portrait with Bandaged Ear indicts us. How willing are we to lead with the fact that we’ve got a lot of things in us that aren’t right?
This is how God sees his people. We are fully exposed in our short-comings, and at the same time we are of unimaginable value to him. Because this is so, this is how we should see others, and it is how we should be willing to be seen by others—broken and of incalculable worth.
Russ Ramsey

German theoretical physicist Max Planck was told by his professor not to go into Physics as “almost everything is discovered already”. So Planck said he did not want to discover anything & just wanted to learn the fundamentals. He went on to originate Quantum theory & won a Nobel Prize. – a recent fact that came to my attention.

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Pondering
Saudi Arabia’s Interior Ministry announced Saturday it had put to death 81 people convicted of various crimes in an effort to “deter anyone who threatens security or disrupts public life.” The Kingdom did not disclose how the executions were carried out, but it is believed to be the largest mass execution in Saudi Arabia’s history.

Despite record-high border crossings last year, the number of undocumented immigrants arrested by U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) fell dramatically in fiscal year 2021—from 159,000 in 2018 to 143,000 in 2019 to 104,000 in 2020 to 74,000 in 2021—according to the agency’s annual report. The report outlines ICE’s “operational changes” under President Biden, including its focus on “the most pressing threats to national security, public safety, and border security” while allowing enforcement officials to “make discretionary decisions about which noncitizens to arrest, detain, and remove.”

Righteousness
Righteousness is not fundamentally about right behavior but right belonging to one another. It is about right relationships. This is why slander and deceitful speech and bearing false witness against others are so devastatingly serious. A person can manage their behavior and still not right their relationships. That is where self-righteousness comes from. Self-righteousness is just the outworking of hard-heartedness. People resist making their relationships right because they can’t come to grips with their own brokenness. 
J D Walt

Say what?
Archbishop Desmond Tutu once said, “There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream and find out why they’re falling in.”

Eugene Peterson says, ‘The gospel of Jesus Christ is more political than anyone imagines, but in a way that no one guesses’.”

The Cross
The Cross should not be seen as an event of divine payment, an arrangement that clears the way for us go to heaven. Nor should the Cross be reduced to a mere willingness to suffer patiently. The Cross is the way of life and is constantly set forth to us throughout the New Testament. It is the singular mark of a Christian: “Those who would be my disciples must take up their cross and follow me.”
Fr Stephen Freeman

the besieged city of Mariupol
“Food is running out, and the Russians have stopped humanitarian attempts to bring it in. Electricity is mostly gone and water is sparse, with residents melting snow to drink. Some parents have even left their newborns at the hospital, perhaps hoping to give them a chance at life in the one place with decent electricity and water. People burn scraps of furniture in makeshift grills to warm their hands in the freezing cold and cook what little food there still is. The grills themselves are built with the one thing in plentiful supply: bricks and shards of metal scattered in the streets from destroyed buildings. Death is everywhere. Local officials have tallied more than 2,500 deaths in the siege, but many bodies can’t be counted because of the endless shelling. They have told families to leave their dead outside in the streets because it’s too dangerous to hold funerals.”

Kenosis
“descending” to a place of “lower status” presupposes that the person is “high status” and on the top. Thus, to be a Christian in these locations is to let go of and to empty oneself of status. To humble and lower yourself.
But how does that work if you are already a low status person, especially an abused and oppressed person? How much lower are you supposed to go?
Victims are already Christian. Victims need no conversion.
Only oppressors and abusers require conversion.
Regarding kenosis, humility and taking up the cross victims have already been poured out, humiliated and crucified. Thus, victims have already been converted. In their victimhood victims already stand with and in Christ. Or, rather, Christ has already moved to stand with the victims–sanctifying them, divinizing them. Victims incarnate the Crucified Christ and, thus, they are already Christians.
Hanging already on the cross, victims need do nothing more to become “Christ-like” or to become like Jesus. As I said, victims require no conversion.
This, then, is the root of the problem with preaching kenosis, humility and taking up the cross to victims. You’re suggesting that the one already hanging on the cross do something more, to in essence crucify themselves again.  And it’s that demand for re-crucifixion–the attempt to convert and preach at the one hanging on the cross–that brings in the potential for abuse.
This is why I think notions like kenosis, humility and taking up the cross often become dysfunctional, hurtful and sadomasochistic when preached at those being abused or oppressed. You’re trying to convert the converted, to make people in these locations do something more, to go lower, when they, as victims, need do nothing more.
Richard Beck

Despair
The circumstance was not unusual; a men’s class on a Wednesday evening.  There was the routine ritual of prayer requests followed by the expected expression of needs for various illness and/or difficulties. The usual was interrupted when one man, a regular attender, stumbled and choked as he tried to express his grief and brokenness. With tears flowing he painfully told us, just a few hours before, his oldest and best friend had been killed in a tragic automobile accident. Many of us had heard about the accident but no one knew the victim was his friend. There was an immediate response of consolation and sympathy. We all shared the pain of the loss of a friend.  

As he continued to pour out the pain in his soul, it became clear his agony was not just grief for his friend but there was a deeper and a more inconsolable pain of guilt. His voice broke as he told us, “I never talked to him about Jesus”. My thoughts were immediately focused on the reports of the accident and the news that the victim was a colorful and well known proprietor of several strip bars. The presumption by all present was that the victim had died without knowing Christ and the hope of eternal life with him.  

I was struck by the reality of what he shared. There was nothing that could be done or said that would change the truth. He had not talked with his friend. What happened next and after the class was revealing. The truth was ignored and one after another, with real concern, offered some form of rationalization or explanation to mitigate his guilt. “You can never under estimate what kind of influence your friendship had on him”. “I’m sure he was good guy”. “You can never know what kind of good things can come out of this”. “It will be OK”. et al 

I believe such occasions require unvarnished truth. Not to be a cruel reminder, but as a light that illuminates our weakness and failure so clearly that we have no where to turn except to God. There are circumstances where we cannot be consoled or sympathized out of our guilt. We need to know that we are loved despite the truth about us. Only with God’s love is this possible.  
There was nothing that could be said that would change the truth. Only the real and abiding presence of God can ultimately sustain and heal us in our moments of despair.  
For the Joy of the Journey 2006

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If one man pushes an old lady in front of an oncoming bus and another pushes an old lady out of the way of an oncoming bus, it is simply preposterous to describe them both as “the sorts of men who push old ladies around.”
William F Buckley

We’ve come a long way
in 1958, 44 percent of white Americans said they’d move away if a black family moved in next door. Forty years later, that number had dropped to 1 percent. When the Civil Rights Act was passed in 1964, only 18 percent of white Americans said they had a black friend. By 1998, that number was 86 percent.
Jonah Goldberg

Opportunity
We have an opportunity in this moment of our great transformation. We can approach this time as survivors, desperately clinging to our structures and ways of being. Or, we can see ourselves as pioneers, setting out in the face of the unknown to discover new ways to live faith-filled lives. The inevitable decline of our structures gives us the chance to let go of what might hold us back from that adventure. Nothing today will be the same ten years from now. Why not architect the kind of faith movement we want to see twenty-to-fifty years from now? What do we have to lose?
Cameron Trimble, Piloting Church: Helping Your Congregation Take Flight (St. Louis, MO: Chalice Press, 2019), 132. 

Self-censorship
The room felt tense. I saw people shift in their seats. Someone got angry, and then everyone seemed to get angry. After the professor tried to move the discussion along, I still felt uneasy. I became a little less likely to speak up again and a little less trusting of my own thoughts.
I was shaken, but also determined to not silence myself. Still, the disdain of my fellow students stuck with me. I was a welcome member of the group — and then I wasn’t.
Throughout that semester, I saw similar reactions in response to other students’ ideas. I heard fewer classmates speak up. Eventually, our discussions became monotonous echo chambers. Absent rich debate and rigor, we became mired in socially safe ideas.
By Emma Camp

Woman at the well
The issue here is how men have read the story about her marriages, as if she was some unfaithful woman. But, she didn’t divorce. Men did. Maybe this was being passed around by five men in a levirate marriage custom. Nor is there indication her question about the temple is a smoke screen. She’s a victim and she’s been revictimized by Christian readers about her. She was unmarried. That’s a source of shame. No one would have her. Jesus sees this woman and makes an instrument of gospeling.
Jesus changes her question from Where do we go to worship? to Where does God go to get worshipers? God’s claim is on the world; not on one mountain in one place.
And Jesus is the well of water that satisfies. Drinking of his water gives them water to offer to others, which the Samaritan woman does and brings them to the well to drink from the source.
Scott Mc Knight

Back in the day
We knew who we were by where we were when there was a junior or senior high dance going on. Someone among us once quipped that our youth leaders were against sex because they were afraid it might lead to dancing. 
Scott McKnight

Ask Amy: Our son and his wife just told us they’re polyamorous
Amy DickinsonMarch 7, 2022 at 12:00 a.m. EST
They told us they are involved in polyamorous relationships where each has another partner, lover or person they each spend a lot of time with outside of the marriage.
We are having a hard time understanding this choice and accepting what this will mean for our relationship going forward, and for our larger family. We are the only family members they have shared this information with so far, and we are sworn to secrecy.
They may have eased their consciences by telling us, but now we are left with troubling and unsettling information and no place to go with it. We assured them that we will never stop loving them, but this is awkward for us.
What can we do to ease our troubled minds?
Bewildered:
Let’s start by talking about divorce. Not that long ago, divorce meant a total severing of a relationship. But then Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin highlighted the concept of “conscious uncoupling,” where a couple ceases to be married, but continues to love one another, even as they move on to other relationships.
You may define marriage as monogamy until divorce or death, but as people explore their freedom to redefine the boundaries of what it means to be married, they may choose “ethical non-monogamy,” which is where they remain lovingly married, but are free to engage in other romantic relationships in a way that they believe is open and honest. They don’t define this as infidelity. It is about consensual relationships.

In my opinion, the important question is how these polyamorous relationships will affect children growing up in families with three or four adults who all identify as parents and partners. If all the adults are stable, loving, and committed to the children, then I imagine the kids will be fine.
Take a breath, do some reading about polyamory, and understand that you define marriage one way, while they define it differently.

Unless you and they are religious, this doesn’t make it “wrong.” It just makes it “what is.”
This is their life and their choice, and if they want to remove the taboo surrounding polyamory, you should discourage them from defining this as a deep, dark family secret.
They (not you) can explain themselves to other family members when the time comes, and yes — it’s bound to be awkward … until it isn’t.

A LOOK BACK

Life is a journey. We will never arrive at “some particular place” that promises peace and safety, short of our promised home in eternity with God. Life as a journey is filled with transitions. Transition is not about just doing better what we have been doing but it is about beginning something we have never done before.  Transition brings both an ending and a beginning.
GE 2006

A New Birth
Feb. 26th, 2006 | 

This past Friday evening our grandson Kyle Gabehart was baptized. As his family looked on his dad Byron baptized him. Kyle is a wonderful grandson who has the heart of a servant. He is very serious about his decisions and was clear about his desire to have his sins forgiven.
As is always the case when a young child (Kyle is 9 years old)wants to be baptized, the nagging question of whether they “know” enough to be baptized comes up. The question, while legitimate, is mostly a product of our Enlightenment mind-set which is centered in knowledge and education. The problem is that just answering that question does not address the heart of the matter. 
I was thinking about the blind man who cried out to be healed and Jesus asked him “What do you want me to do for you?”. Did he know enough to be healed? Was he knowledgeable about the requirements of the law or the implications to his life after he was healed? I think not. Why should we expect any more from a child who has begun to feel the pain of their rebellion and wants to be forgiven?

Incompetent 
March 5, 2005
For the last few days we have been enjoying Disney World with grandkids and their family. One of the things that has struck me is the crowds with their great diversity …appearance, speaking, attitudes, social standing. I am also struck by the lack of resemblance to myself, at least as I perceive myself. I have thought about those people. How could I possibly “share the Good News”? What would I say? How and where could it be said? Quite frankly, I am fearful and feel completely incompetent. 

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